Psychological Help

PREVENT AIDS

May 31st, 2008

PREVENT AIDS
University of Melbourne carried out a study which came up with a new immune treatment that may control AIDS. Test on animals showed that the treatment controlled the infection, although it does not cure it, and human trails are planned. The treatment is called OPAL (Overlapping Peptide pulsed Auto logous Cells). Treatment involves mixing the patient’s own blood cells with tiny bits of protein from the virus. These cells are then re-infused into the patient. The whole viral sequence is taken and a series of overlapping peptides is made based on it. These trigger the body’s immune cells, the T-cells, to recognize the presence of the virus like HIV much more clearly – and to attack it more effectively, reducing the levels of the virus and preventing the destruction of the immune system.

The Unhappiness Feeling

May 31st, 2008

We don’t get all that we want in our life; some we get while certain others we don’t. Life is full of such situation. In order to deal with them effectively, you must take greater responsibility for your life and the outcomes.
Confront the negative aspect that seems to be keeping you down. This is especially true when dealing with relationships. In a relationship or even in its breakup, there are so many emotion and feelings that one deals with.
There could be many reasons for the sad feeling in a relationship. Some of them are discussed here to help you figure out what is going wrong.

Envy/ jealousy – we often tend to feel that the other person is not giving much time to pamper us and thus don’t pay attention to the other person’s need. This behavior is self – defeating in itself. Due to the jealousy we do not remember to rejoice the success and accomplishments of the partner and hence miss the time one could spend together and happiness that they could share.

Take out time – for a good relationship you are required to have your priorities clear, don’t hurry up to click. At the initial stage itself, take out time to understand each others emotions and decide on the adjustment to make by both of you.

Taking Responsibility – realize that we can minimize our unhappiness by making personal responsibility and efforts to overcome them. Life isn’t bed of roses so the best thing is not to complain over it and blame others but rather own up to your failures while growing up and learning from it.

Overcoming the obstacles – realize that the unhappiness is caused by some obstacles or gap and the only way to come out of it make a choice to overcome.

Being perfect – It is impossible for any individual to be competent in every endeavor and an individual who feels one must be is doomed to a sense of failure. Stop fretting and instead striving to beat others, simply enjoy the activity itself.

Self esteem – “…Count your night by stars not shadows; count your life by smile not tears.” Have a high self esteem; for that be aware of your good qualities and accomplishments. Don’t show anxious over concern about any problem area, instead work towards correcting them.

Self efficacy – recognize your capacity or power to produce a desired effect. You have the ability to attain any thing that you wish.

Negativism – Characterized by habitual skepticism and a disagreeable tendency to deny or oppose or resist suggestions or commands. It only makes us feel worse. What you focus on, good or bad, are based upon the choices you make.

Be reasonable – Remove the distorted perceptions. Happiness in your life is the result of your own choices. Process information in a way that serves your need. Don’t expect others to change or try to change external factors. The one that can be changed by you is your own self which would in return have an impact on your environment; and you will notice the desirable changes there by positively changing your own self.

Meaningful feelings – follow your heart to seek happiness and put some meaning in your life.

The unhappiness feeling will vanish with your high spirited self and a fulfilling relationship. Change yourself to match the situation you are in and at time change the situation to match your needs. Influencing your life is in your hand.

Troubled teens

May 31st, 2008

There are enough cases of drug abuse, family violence, juvenile crime, school truancy that get the parents worried. Teenagers are also known for their need to test their independence and rights. Many parents find that dealing with troubled teens is becoming increasingly challenging in today’s world.

TEEN PROBLEMS -
You need to realize that teens today face huge, life threatening decisions just about ever day. What they face has a lot to do with where they grow up.
# Self Identity: In this phase of life they try on many roles. They have to develop an integrated and coherent sense of self. If they fail to accomplish this, they are trapped in role confusion or sometimes “negative identity” like delinquency.
# Drugs: Kids are not just smoking; they could even have easy access to deadly drugs. It may be a result of experimentation, peer pressure, isolation, feeling helpless, etc
# Sex: On one side various developments during childhood and adolescence are powerful sources of natural interest about sex. On the other the family and education fails to provide necessary information. They get the information from movies, TV, magazines, older kids and sometimes from own experience. Not only are they exposed to it on the television, but they are encouraged by others.
# Depression: Depression is not something that just goes away after some time, but can cause them harm and threaten their lives. There could be many reasons like competitions, peer pressure, bully, unattractiveness, isolation, lack of intimate relationship, parent’s-breakup etc.
# Violence: Aggression may arise from poor sense of self, frustration, fear of fusion in closeness, chronic use of anger as defense, etc. hey see friends with guns at school or after school. They witness huge fights. They hear threats. They see anger and deal with it daily.
# Drop outs – learning problems, low self esteem, failures and some of the students break under the pressure if they don’t get support at the right time.
Teenage problems should be addressed and noticed by their parents first. Teen problems that are at a lower level can be just as deadly. They face lying, cheating, emotional trauma, learning disabilities and parent’s-divorce.

TAKE ACTION –
Parents need to spend time and understand the needs of their children, despite the pressures of modern living. When you realize that teenager is showing difficulty, the first important thing to do is take action; ignoring the problem may make it so that it is too late. Admitting that your past parenting is not currently working is the first step to a possible change.
You may need to seek help from other resources to see what is wrong with your parenting, and how they can change to deal with troubled teen’s problem. Find books, search the Internet, and even ask friends if you are comfortable enough. Asking other parents is a useful exercise, and so is joining parent support groups. Churches and other venues often have such groups. Listening to what other parents are dealing with, and understanding their parenting methods can help you understand your own methods better and thusly help you adjust to your child’s unique needs.

COMMUNICATION –
Communication is a connection allowing access between persons. When dealing with troubled teen, realize that it may be something you are doing is causing your teen’s behavior. Children often resist dialogues with parents. They resent being preached to, talked at, and criticized. You will never be able to understand your teens problems if you don’t communicate well. Listen to them, show understanding and respect, and then take steps to help them solve the problem that they are having. Trust is very important when dealing with teens and therefore should be central to your approach. Keep trying even though it may be frustrating to deal with your teen at times. Talking to your teen treating them like an equal can also be helpful in communication and building trust.

PARENTAL INSTINCT –
If you think that your teen is in problem, or may be using drugs, you must try to help out before anything getting damaged. Do not doubt if the child tells that they wouldn’t do it (taking drug, etc) anymore. Do trust them but don’t let problems go assuming adolescence as a period of inevitable turbulence and disruption.

SEEK HELP –
There are family – therapies and counseling available. It may de your family problems like parent’s breakup or fights that is troubling the child or failure to develop a self identity, role confusion, isolation, depression, learning disabilities, etc that could be helped out. Lack of information on certain issues like sex, unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, contraceptives, safe sex, harms of drug use and abuse, etc could be properly dealt.

We do have teenage problems but this doesn’t mean that one should misguide and mislead that teenage is period of disruption and adolescent sexuality as rampaging, etc. A right kind of attitude and information is required to help those individuals who are really at risk and need help and support.

Bad Relationships

May 31st, 2008

Why should loving be so hopeless and painful?
Come lets take the responsibility this time to find out an answer to this question,to learn from failures, and have the right approach.

The desperate attempt to seek intimacy and have an Instant relationship leaves you being vulnerable to heartbreak and disappointments.

Relationships with a GAP
Is the guy having an escape plan in the relationship, the first few weeks being fun and in the days that follow next are times when you sit fantasizing?
The reason could be that the relationship is a “fanciful one” or “jiffy one”.
Fanciful relationships are the ones that are based on false assumption or ignorance and end up even before you realize it.
The jiffy relationships are those where you jump into it and expect having fun as well as act clingy. For this, just think for your own sake “Why a man is ever going to immediately think that you are “the one” and think about settling down with you?”

RESISTANCE in the relationship
When you force the other person to change, and act to correct the lifestyle without understanding, without being in agreement with him you force him to tear apart.
These irrational ways of concern would eventually end your relationship leaving you in intense depression or rage.

DESTRUCTIVE relationships
Few women readily take the relationship to the bedroom just after a few dates in a hope to achieve closeness or feeling of belonging, or to make a man ‘come around’ and think she is the one for him end up as exploited as this behavior completely lack any sort of emotional attachment on the guy’s side.
Another type here is where you are with the person who isn’t right for you. He might even be violent, disinterested or two-timing. However, even if you know this, you still can’t seem to leave him. Perhaps you are more afraid of being alone than being in this type of relationship. You think that a man is the answer to your problems or he can give you the answer to your problem.

WHAT TO DO
Have a set of core values and beliefs that guide you in your life.
Prioritize the more important things in life.
Have your identity, and self esteem.
Remember that a guy is capable of going through the emotional stage first so be on the safe side and make sure to put down a more solid emotional groundwork.
Communicate well, positive reciprocity than negative feedback.

COUNSELING

May 31st, 2008

COUNSELING

Counseling deals with developmental and adjustment problem of a normal individual. It is concerned with bringing about voluntary change in the client. Counseling denotes a wide variety of procedures for helping individuals achieve adjustment, such as therapeutic discussions, the administration and interpretation of tests, vocational assistance.

Counseling process implies continuous changes that take place in the client in promoting personality change in desired direction.

COUNSELING PROCESS usually includes
• Initial appointment
• Pre counseling session
• Development of facilitative relationship
• Specification of goals and considering factors related to achieving solution
• Development and implementation of program
• Evaluation of result
• Termination of relationship
• Follow up

Counseling process by and large is the same for all problems and for all individuals. However, certain differences exist with regard to types of counseling.

COUNSELING APPROACHES:
o Client – Centered Counseling
o Existential Counseling
o Psychoanalytic Counseling
o Gestalt Counseling
o Adlerian Counseling
o Narrative therapy
o Behavior Counseling
o Rational emotive Behavior therapy
o Strategic Counseling
o Multimodal Counseling (BASIC ID)
o Reality therapy
o Expressive Therapies

Client Centered therapy was found by Carl Rogers. It is a non-directive approach, based on a subjective view of human experiencing, it places more faith in and give responsibility to the client in dealing with problems. This model does not include diagnostic testing, interpretation, taking case history, and questioning or probing for information.

Existential counseling is particularly rich and difficult theory because it intersects so many different fields. This approach has been minimally concerned with the techniques and specific intervention of counseling, concentrating instead on philosophical principals that aid understanding of the client. The goal of the therapy is to enable one to be free and responsible for the direction of one’s life.

Psychoanalytic counseling is based on the theory given by Sigmund Freud. The client gains insight by talking, sometimes by dream analysis and by developing a rational control by understanding ‘transference’, analysis of resistance. Diagnosis and testing are often used. Questions are used to develop case history. The therapy deals with client’s anxiety and aims at making the unconscious conscious.

Gestalt therapy describes human existence in terms of awareness. The focus is on ‘what’ and ‘how’ of the behavior and the central role of ‘unfinished business’ from the past that interferes with present. The therapist assists the client the client in developing the means to his/her own interpretations. Their goal is to challenge the client to accept responsibility of taking internal support as opposed to external support. Its main contribution is the emphasis on doing and expressing rather than on merely talking about feelings.

Aderaian Counseling: Alfred Adler developed a remarkably integrative theory of his time. Adlerian counseling is a collaborative effort between the client and the counselor. They respect each other and develop a therapeutic relationship based on trust. They work together in exploring and identifying the client’s style of life, the mistaken goals and faulty assumption. The major goal of the counseling is to kindle the social feeling in the client.

Narrative therapy seek to help people to‘re-story’ their lives to change the narrative about what took place. Therapist acts as facilitator of change. Therapist emphasizes listening to the clients with an open mind, without judgment or blame. The focus is on helping the client to deal with the problem as their enemy to be defeated. The client is helped to explore all the ways this problem has been disruptive, to him/her and to others.

Behavioral counseling is based on the principle of learning theory. The basic philosophy is that, humans are shaped and determined by socio-cultural conditioning. Focus is on overt behavior, development of specific treatment plans. The therapist is active and directive and functions as a teacher or trainer in helping the client learn more effective behavior. It is a pragmatic approach based on experimental validation of results.

Rational Emotive Behavior therapy: their primary goal is to help client identify their patterns of irrational thinking, those habitual beliefs that lead one to misperceive reality and subsequently learn alternative tools of thinking. Therapy is a process of re-education. The therapist functions as a teacher. Its main contribution is that it points out the necessity of practice and doing to actually change problem behavior

Strategic counseling combines the methods and theory from a number of disciplines into dramatic action-oriented helping model. The therapist follow an orderly sequence of steps: understanding the dynamics of the client’s relationship, identifying the source of conflict, and planning a strategy for change.
Counselor’s role is highly active and directive. Strategies are all individually designed to match the client’s personal style and situation.

Multimodal counseling: It is called so because it seeks to understand and intervene at all levels of all seven modalities of human personality. It permits the practitioner to understand at glance – how the client characteristically function, – How, where, and why the presenting problem manifests itself, – how specifically to use the profile as a blueprint for promoting change.

Reality therapy is based on growth motivation and is anti deterministic. The focus is on what can be done now. The goal of the therapy is to guide the client toward learning realistic and responsible behavior and developing a ‘success identity’. The approach is basically active, directive, dyadic therapy, supportive and confrontational.

Expressive therapies include a variety of therapeutic approaches. Frequently the use of expressive therapy is not theoretically isolated but occurs as an adjunct to other theoretical modalities. The following therapies come under this approach –
Art therapy, Music and dance therapy, Bio-feedback, Play-therapy, Hypnotherapy, Exercise.

COUNSELING APPLICATION
The counseling is used for several purposes. The different counseling applications are –
• Group Counseling and Individual Counseling
• School counseling
• College counseling and student services
• Career Counseling
• Marital, Family and Sex counseling
• Addiction Counseling
• Rehabilitation and Mental health Counseling
• Counseling Diverse Population (aged, physically challenged)

Depression: Psychological Help

May 5th, 2008

Depression

    * What Is Depression?
    * What are the different forms of depression?
    * What are the symptoms of depression?
    * What illnesses often co-exist with depression?
    * What causes depression?
    * How do women experience depression?
    * How do men experience depression?
    * How do older adults experience depression?
    * How do children and adolescents experience depression?
    * How is depression detected and treated?
    * How can I help a friend or relative who is depressed?
    * How can I help myself if I am depressed?
    * Where can I go for help?
    * What if I or someone I know is in crisis?
   

What Is Depression?
A mental state characterized by a pessimistic sense of inadequacy and a despondent lack of activity.
Normal depressions are almost always the result of recent stress.

Everyone occasionally feels blue or sad, but these feelings are usually fleeting and pass within a couple of days. When a person has a depressive disorder, it interferes with daily life, normal functioning, and causes pain for both the person with the disorder and those who care about him or her. Depression is a common but serious illness, and most who experience it need treatment to get better.

Many people with a depressive illness never seek treatment. But the vast majority, even those with the most severe depression, can get better with treatment. Intensive research into the illness has resulted in the development of medications, psychotherapies, and other methods to treat people with this disabling disorder.

Loss and Grieving Process (Bowlby,1980)
four phases:
1.Numbing and disbelief that may last from a few hours to a week and which may be interrupted by outbursts of intense distress, panic, or anger
2.Yearning and searching for the dead person, which may last for months or occasionally for years
3.Disorgaization and despair
4.Some level of recognization

What are the different forms of depression?

Varieties of depression:
# Unipolar disorders- dysthymia; adjustment disorder with depressed mood; major depressive disorder
# Bipolar disorders- cyclothymia, depressed; Bipolar I disorders, depressed; bipolar II disorder, depressed
# Other mood disorders- mood disorders due to a general medical conditon; substance-induced mood disorder

There are several forms of depressive disorders. The most common are major depressive disorder and dysthymic disorder.

Major depressive disorder, also called major depression, is characterized by a combination of symptoms that interfere with a person’s ability to work, sleep, study, eat, and enjoy once–pleasurable activities. Major depression is disabling and prevents a person from functioning normally. An episode of major depression may occur only once in a person’s lifetime, but more often, it recurs throughout a person’s life.

Dysthymic disorder, also called dysthymia, is characterized by long–term (two years or longer) but less severe symptoms that may not disable a person but can prevent one from functioning normally or feeling well. People with dysthymia may also experience one or more episodes of major depression during their lifetimes.

Some forms of depressive disorder exhibit slightly different characteristics than those described above, or they may develop under unique circumstances. However, not all scientists agree on how to characterize and define these forms of depression. They include:

Psychotic depression, which occurs when a severe depressive illness is accompanied by some form of psychosis, such as a break with reality, hallucinations, and delusions.

Postpartum depression, which is diagnosed if a new mother develops a major depressive episode within one month after delivery. It is estimated that 10 to 15 percent of women experience postpartum depression after giving birth.

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD), which is characterized by the onset of a depressive illness during the winter months, when there is less natural sunlight. The depression generally lifts during spring and summer. SAD may be effectively treated with light therapy, but nearly half of those with SAD do not respond to light therapy alone. Antidepressant medication and psychotherapy can reduce SAD symptoms, either alone or in combination with light therapy.

Bipolar disorder, also called manic-depressive illness, is not as common as major depression or dysthymia. Bipolar disorder is characterized by cycling mood changes-from extreme highs (e.g., mania) to extreme lows (e.g., depression).

What are the symptoms of depression?

People with depressive illnesses do not all experience the same symptoms. The severity, frequency and duration of symptoms will vary depending on the individual and his or her particular illness.

Symptoms include:

    * Persistent sad, anxious or “empty” feelings
    * Feelings of hopelessness and/or pessimism
    * Feelings of guilt, worthlessness and/or helplessness
    * Irritability, restlessness
    * Loss of interest in activities or hobbies once pleasurable, including sex
    * Fatigue and decreased energy
    * Difficulty concentrating, remembering details and making decisions
    * Insomnia, early–morning wakefulness, or excessive sleeping
    * Overeating, or appetite loss
    * Thoughts of suicide, suicide attempts
    * Persistent aches or pains, headaches, cramps or digestive problems that do not ease even with treatment

What illnesses often co-exist with depression?

Depression often co–exists with other illnesses. Such illnesses may precede the depression, cause it, and/or be a consequence of it. It is likely that the mechanics behind the intersection of depression and other illnesses differ for every person and situation. Regardless, these other co–occurring illnesses need to be diagnosed and treated.

Anxiety disorders, such as post–traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), obsessive–compulsive disorder, panic disorder, social phobia and generalized anxiety disorder, often accompany depression. People experiencing PTSD are especially prone to having co-occurring depression. PTSD is a debilitating condition that can result after a person experiences a terrifying event or ordeal, such as a violent assault, a natural disaster, an accident, terrorism or military combat.

People with PTSD often re–live the traumatic event in flashbacks, memories or nightmares. Other symptoms include irritability, anger outbursts, intense guilt, and avoidance of thinking or talking about the traumatic ordeal. In a National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)–funded study, researchers found that more than 40 percent of people with PTSD also had depression at one-month and four-month intervals after the traumatic event.

Alcohol and other substance abuse or dependence may also co–occur with depression. In fact, research has indicated that the co–existence of mood disorders and substance abuse is pervasive among the U.S. population.

Depression also often co–exists with other serious medical illnesses such as heart disease, stroke, cancer, hiv/aids, diabetes, and Parkinson’s disease. Studies have shown that people who have depression in addition to another serious medical illness tend to have more severe symptoms of both depression and the medical illness, more difficulty adapting to their medical condition, and more medical costs than those who do not have co–existing depression. Research has yielded increasing evidence that treating the depression can also help improve the outcome of treating the co–occurring illness.

What causes depression?

There is no single known cause of depression. Rather, it likely results from a combination of genetic, biochemical, environmental, and psychological factors.

Research indicates that depressive illnesses are disorders of the brain. Brain-imaging technologies, such as magnetic resonance imaging (MRI), have shown that the brains of people who have depression look different than those of people without depression. The parts of the brain responsible for regulating mood, thinking, sleep, appetite and behavior appear to function abnormally. In addition, important neurotransmitters–chemicals that brain cells use to communicate–appear to be out of balance. But these images do not reveal why the depression has occurred.

Some types of depression tend to run in families, suggesting a genetic link. However, depression can occur in people without family histories of depression as well. Genetics research indicates that risk for depression results from the influence of multiple genes acting together with environmental or other factors.

In addition, trauma, loss of a loved one, a difficult relationship, or any stressful situation may trigger a depressive episode. Subsequent depressive episodes may occur with or without an obvious trigger.
How do women experience depression?

Depression is more common among women than among men. Biological, life cycle, hormonal and psychosocial factors unique to women may be linked to women’s higher depression rate. Researchers have shown that hormones directly affect brain chemistry that controls emotions and mood. For example, women are particularly vulnerable to depression after giving birth, when hormonal and physical changes, along with the new responsibility of caring for a newborn, can be overwhelming. Many new mothers experience a brief episode of the “baby blues,” but some will develop postpartum depression, a much more serious condition that requires active treatment and emotional support for the new mother. Some studies suggest that women who experience postpartum depression often have had prior depressive episodes.

Some women may also be susceptible to a severe form of premenstrual syndrome (PMS), sometimes called premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), a condition resulting from the hormonal changes that typically occur around ovulation and before menstruation begins. During the transition into menopause, some women experience an increased risk for depression. Scientists are exploring how the cyclical rise and fall of estrogen and other hormones may affect the brain chemistry that is associated with depressive illness.

Finally, many women face the additional stresses of work and home responsibilities, caring for children and aging parents, abuse, poverty, and relationship strains. It remains unclear why some women faced with enormous challenges develop depression, while others with similar challenges do not?

How do men experience depression?

Men often experience depression differently than women and may have different ways of coping with the symptoms. Men are more likely to acknowledge having fatigue, irritability, loss of interest in once–pleasurable activities, and sleep disturbances, whereas women are more likely to admit to feelings of sadness, worthlessness and/or excessive guilt.

Men are more likely than women to turn to alcohol or drugs when they are depressed, or become frustrated, discouraged, irritable, angry and sometimes abusive. Some men throw themselves into their work to avoid talking about their depression with family or friends, or engage in reckless, risky behavior. And even though more women attempt suicide, many more men die by suicide in the United States.

How do older adults experience depression?

Depression is not a normal part of aging, and studies show that most seniors feel satisfied with their lives, despite increased physical ailments. However, when older adults do have depression, it may be overlooked because seniors may show different, less obvious symptoms, and may be less inclined to experience or acknowledge feelings of sadness or grief.

In addition, older adults may have more medical conditions such as heart disease, stroke or cancer, which may cause depressive symptoms, or they may be taking medications with side effects that contribute to depression. Some older adults may experience what some doctors call vascular depression, also called arteriosclerotic depression or subcortical ischemic depression. Vascular depression may result when blood vessels become less flexible and harden over time, becoming constricted. Such hardening of vessels prevents normal blood flow to the body’s organs, including the brain. Those with vascular depression may have, or be at risk for, a co–existing cardiovascular illness or stroke.

Although many people assume that the highest rates of suicide are among the young, older white males age 85 and older actually have the highest suicide rate. Many have a depressive illness that their doctors may not detect, despite the fact that these suicide victims often visit their doctors within one month of their deaths.

The majority of older adults with depression improve when they receive treatment with an antidepressant, psychotherapy, or a combination of both. Research has shown that medication alone and combination treatment are both effective in reducing the rate of depressive recurrences in older adults. Psychotherapy alone also can be effective in prolonging periods free of depression, especially for older adults with minor depression, and it is particularly useful for those who are unable or unwilling to take antidepressant medication.

How do children and adolescents experience depression?

Scientists and doctors have begun to take seriously the risk of depression in children. Research has shown that childhood depression often persists, recurs and continues into adulthood, especially if it goes untreated. The presence of childhood depression also tends to be a predictor of more severe illnesses in adulthood.

A child with depression may pretend to be sick, refuse to go to school, cling to a parent, or worry that a parent may die. Older children may sulk, get into trouble at school, be negative and irritable, and feel misunderstood. Because these signs may be viewed as normal mood swings typical of children as they move through developmental stages, it may be difficult to accurately diagnose a young person with depression.

Before puberty, boys and girls are equally likely to develop depressive disorders. By age 15, however, girls are twice as likely as boys to have experienced a major depressive episode.

Depression in adolescence comes at a time of great personal change–when boys and girls are forming an identity distinct from their parents, grappling with gender issues and emerging sexuality, and making decisions for the first time in their lives. Depression in adolescence frequently co–occurs with other disorders such as anxiety, disruptive behavior, eating disorders or substance abuse. It can also lead to increased risk for suicide.

Key indicators of adolescent depression include a drastic change in eating and sleeping patterns, significant loss of
interest in previous activity interests (Blackman,1995; Oster & Montgomery, 1996), constant boredom (Blackman, 1995), disruptive behavior, peer problem, increased irritability and aggression (Brown, 1996).
Blackman (1995) proposed that formal psychological testing may be helpful in complicated presentations
 

An NIMH–funded clinical trial of 439 adolescents with major depression found that a combination of medication and psychotherapy was the most effective treatment option. Other NIMH–funded researchers are developing and testing ways to prevent suicide in children and adolescents, including early diagnosis and treatment, and a better understanding of suicidal thinking.

How is depression detected and treated?

Depression, even the most severe cases, is a highly treatable disorder. As with many illnesses, the earlier that treatment can begin, the more effective it is and the greater the likelihood that recurrence can be prevented.

The first step to getting appropriate treatment is to visit a doctor. Certain medications, and some medical conditions such as viruses or a thyroid disorder, can cause the same symptoms as depression. A doctor can rule out these possibilities by conducting a physical examination, interview and lab tests. If the doctor can eliminate a medical condition as a cause, he or she should conduct a psychological evaluation or refer the patient to a mental health professional.

The doctor or mental health professional will conduct a complete diagnostic evaluation. He or she should discuss any family history of depression, and get a complete history of symptoms, e.g., when they started, how long they have lasted, their severity, and whether they have occurred before and if so, how they were treated. He or she should also ask if the patient is using alcohol or drugs, and whether the patient is thinking about death or suicide.

Once diagnosed, a person with depression can be treated with a number of methods. The most common treatments are medication and psychotherapy.
Medication

Antidepressants work to normalize naturally occurring brain chemicals called neurotransmitters, notably serotonin and norepinephrine. Other antidepressants work on the neurotransmitter dopamine. Scientists studying depression have found that these particular chemicals are involved in regulating mood, but they are unsure of the exact ways in which they work.

The newest and most popular types of antidepressant medications are called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). SSRIs include fluoxetine (Prozac), citalopram (Celexa), sertraline (Zoloft) and several others. Serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) are similar to SSRIs and include venlafaxine (Effexor) and duloxetine (Cymbalta). SSRIs and SNRIs are more popular than the older classes of antidepressants, such as tricyclics–named for their chemical structure–and monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs) because they tend to have fewer side effects. However, medications affect everyone differently–no one–size–fits–all approach to medication exists. Therefore, for some people, tricyclics or MAOIs may be the best choice.

People taking MAOIs must adhere to significant food and medicinal restrictions to avoid potentially serious interactions. They must avoid certain foods that contain high levels of the chemical tyramine, which is found in many cheeses, wines and pickles, and some medications including decongestants. MAOIs interact with tyramine in such a way that may cause a sharp increase in blood pressure, which could lead to a stroke. A doctor should give a patient taking an MAOI a complete list of prohibited foods, medicines and substances.

For all classes of antidepressants, patients must take regular doses for at least three to four weeks before they are likely to experience a full therapeutic effect. They should continue taking the medication for the time specified by their doctor, even if they are feeling better, in order to prevent a relapse of the depression. Medication should be stopped only under a doctor’s supervision. Some medications need to be gradually stopped to give the body time to adjust. Although antidepressants are not habit–forming or addictive, abruptly ending an antidepressant can cause withdrawal symptoms or lead to a relapse. Some individuals, such as those with chronic or recurrent depression, may need to stay on the medication indefinitely.

In addition, if one medication does not work, patients should be open to trying another. NIMH–funded research has shown that patients who did not get well after taking a first medication increased their chances of becoming symptom–free after they switched to a different medication or added another medication to their existing one.

Sometimes stimulants, anti–anxiety medications, or other medications are used in conjunction with an antidepressant, especially if the patient has a co–existing mental or physical disorder. However, neither anti–anxiety medications nor stimulants are effective against depression when taken alone, and both should be taken only under a doctor’s close supervision.

What are the side effects of antidepressants?

Antidepressants may cause mild and often temporary side effects in some people, but they are usually not long–term. However, any unusual reactions or side effects that interfere with normal functioning should be reported to a doctor immediately.

The most common side effects associated with SSRIs and SNRIs include:

    * Headache–usually temporary and will subside.
    * Nausea–temporary and usually short–lived.
    * Insomnia and nervousness (trouble falling asleep or waking often during the night)–may occur during the first few weeks but often subside over time or if the dose is reduced.
    * Agitation (feeling jittery).
    * Sexual problems–both men and women can experience sexual problems including reduced sex drive, erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, or inability to have an orgasm.

Tricyclic antidepressants also can cause side effects including:

    * Dry mouth-it is helpful to drink plenty of water, chew gum, and clean teeth daily.
    * Constipation-it is helpful to eat more bran cereals, prunes, fruits, and vegetables.
    * Bladder problems–emptying the bladder may be difficult, and the urine stream may not be as strong as usual. Older men with enlarged prostate conditions may be more affected. The doctor should be notified if it is painful to urinate.
    * Sexual problems–sexual functioning may change, and side effects are similar to those from SSRIs.
    * Blurred vision–often passes soon and usually will not require a new corrective lenses prescription.
    * Drowsiness during the day–usually passes soon, but driving or operating heavy machinery should be avoided while drowsiness occurs. The more sedating antidepressants are generally taken at bedtime to help sleep and minimize daytime drowsiness.

FDA Warning on antidepressants

Despite the relative safety and popularity of SSRIs and other antidepressants, some studies have suggested that they may have unintentional effects on some people, especially adolescents and young adults. In 2004, the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) conducted a thorough review of published and unpublished controlled clinical trials of antidepressants that involved nearly 4,400 children and adolescents. The review revealed that 4% of those taking antidepressants thought about or attempted suicide (although no suicides occurred), compared to 2% of those receiving placebos.

This information prompted the FDA, in 2005, to adopt a “black box” warning label on all antidepressant medications to alert the public about the potential increased risk of suicidal thinking or attempts in children and adolescents taking antidepressants. In 2007, the FDA proposed that makers of all antidepressant medications extend the warning to include young adults up through age 24. A “black box” warning is the most serious type of warning on prescription drug labeling.

The warning emphasizes that children, adolescents and young adults taking antidepressants should be closely monitored, especially during the initial weeks of treatment. Possible side effects to look for are worsening depression, suicidal thinking or behavior, or any unusual changes in behavior such as sleeplessness, agitation, or withdrawal from normal social situations.

Results of a comprehensive review of pediatric trials conducted between 1988 and 2006 suggested that the benefits of antidepressant medications likely outweigh their risks to children and adolescents with major depression and anxiety disorders. The study was funded in part by the National Institute of Mental Health.

What about St. John’s wort?

The extract from St. John’s wort (Hypericum perforatum), a bushy, wild-growing plant with yellow flowers, has been used for centuries in many folk and herbal remedies. Today in Europe, it is used extensively to treat mild to moderate depression. In the United States, it is one of the top–selling botanical products.

To address increasing American interests in St. John’s wort, the National Institutes of Health conducted a clinical trial to determine the effectiveness of the herb in treating adults who have major depression. Involving 340 patients diagnosed with major depression, the eight–week trial randomly assigned one-third of them to a uniform dose of St. John’s wort, one–third to a commonly prescribed SSRI, and one–third to a placebo. The trial found that St. John’s wort was no more effective than the placebo in treating major depression. Another study is looking at the effectiveness of St. John’s wort for treating mild or minor depression.

Other research has shown that St. John’s wort can interact unfavorably with other medications, including those used to control HIV infection. On February 10, 2000, the FDA issued a Public Health Advisory letter stating that the herb appears to interfere with certain medications used to treat heart disease, depression, seizures, certain cancers, and organ transplant rejection. The herb also may interfere with the effectiveness of oral contraceptives. Because of these potential interactions, patients should always consult with their doctors before taking any herbal supplement.

Psychotherapy

Several types of psychotherapy–or “talk therapy”–can help people with depression.

Some regimens are short–term (10 to 20 weeks) and other regimens are longer–term, depending on the needs of the individual. Two main types of psychotherapies–cognitive–behavioral therapy (CBT) and interpersonal therapy (IPT)-have been shown to be effective in treating depression. By teaching new ways of thinking and behaving, CBT helps people change negative styles of thinking and behaving that may contribute to their depression. IPT helps people understand and work through troubled personal relationships that may cause their depression or make it worse.

For mild to moderate depression, psychotherapy may be the best treatment option. However, for major depression or for certain people, psychotherapy may not be enough. Studies have indicated that for adolescents, a combination of medication and psychotherapy may be the most effective approach to treating major depression and reducing the likelihood for recurrence. Similarly, a study examining depression treatment among older adults found that patients who responded to initial treatment of medication and IPT were less likely to have recurring depression if they continued their combination treatment for at least two years.

Electroconvulsive Therapy

For cases in which medication and/or psychotherapy does not help alleviate a person’s treatment–resistant depression, electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) may be useful. ECT, formerly known as “shock therapy,” once had a bad reputation. But in recent years, it has greatly improved and can provide relief for people with severe depression who have not been able to feel better with other treatments.

Before ECT is administered, a patient takes a muscle relaxant and is put under brief anesthesia. He or she does not consciously feel the electrical impulse administered in ECT. A patient typically will undergo ECT several times a week, and often will need to take an antidepressant or mood stabilizing medication to supplement the ECT treatments and prevent relapse. Although some patients will need only a few courses of ECT, others may need maintenance ECT, usually once a week at first, then gradually decreasing to monthly treatments for up to one year.

ECT may cause some short-term side effects, including confusion, disorientation and memory loss. But these side effects typically clear soon after treatment. Research has indicated that after one year of ECT treatments, patients showed no adverse cognitive effects.

What efforts are underway to improve treatment?

Researchers are looking for ways to better understand, diagnose and treat depression among all groups of people. New potential treatments are being tested that give hope to those who live with depression that is particularly difficult to treat, and researchers are studying the risk factors for depression and how it affects the brain. NIMH continues to fund cutting–edge research into this debilitating disorder.
How can I help a friend or relative who is depressed?

If you know someone who is depressed, it affects you too. The first and most important thing you can do to help a friend or relative who has depression is to help him or her get an appropriate diagnosis and treatment. You may need to make an appointment on behalf of your friend or relative and go with him or her to see the doctor. Encourage him or her to stay in treatment, or to seek different treatment if no improvement occurs after six to eight weeks.
To help a friend or relative:

    * Offer emotional support, understanding, patience and encouragement.
    * Engage your friend or relative in conversation, and listen carefully.
    * Never disparage feelings your friend or relative expresses, but point out realities and offer hope.
    * Never ignore comments about suicide, and report them to your friend’s or relative’s therapist or doctor.
    * Invite your friend or relative out for walks, outings and other activities. Keep trying if he or she declines, but don’t push him or her to take on too much too soon. Although diversions and company are needed, too many demands may increase feelings of failure.
    * Remind your friend or relative that with time and treatment, the depression will lift.

How can I help myself if I am depressed?

If you have depression, you may feel exhausted, helpless and hopeless. It may be extremely difficult to take any action to help yourself. But it is important to realize that these feelings are part of the depression and do not accurately reflect actual circumstances. As you begin to recognize your depression and begin treatment, negative thinking will fade.
To help yourself:

    * Engage in mild activity or exercise. Go to a movie, a ballgame, or another event or activity that you once enjoyed. Participate in religious, social or other activities.
    * Set realistic goals for yourself.
    * Break up large tasks into small ones, set some priorities and do what you can as you can.
    * Try to spend time with other people and confide in a trusted friend or relative. Try not to isolate yourself, and let others help you.
    * Expect your mood to improve gradually, not immediately. Do not expect to suddenly “snap out of” your depression. Often during treatment for depression, sleep and appetite will begin to improve before your depressed mood lifts.
    * Postpone important decisions, such as getting married or divorced or changing jobs, until you feel better. Discuss decisions with others who know you well and have a more objective view of your situation.
    * Remember that positive thinking will replace negative thoughts as your depression responds to treatment.

Where can I go for help?

If you are unsure where to go for help, ask your family doctor. Others who can help are listed below.
Mental Health Resources:

    * Mental health specialists, such as psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, or mental health counselors
    * Health maintenance organizations
    * Community mental health centers
    * Hospital psychiatry departments and outpatient clinics
    * Mental health programs at universities or medical schools
    * State hospital outpatient clinics
    * Family services, social agencies or clergy
    * Peer support groups
    * Private clinics and facilities
    * Employee assistance programs
    * Local medical and/or psychiatric societies
    * You can also check the phone book under “mental health,” “health,” “social services,” “hotlines,” or “physicians” for phone numbers and addresses. An emergency room doctor also can provide temporary help and can tell you where and how to get further help.

What if I or someone I know is in crisis?

If you are thinking about harming yourself, or know someone who is, tell someone who can help immediately.

    * Call your doctor.Make sure they are taking what ever medications and vitamins they are supposed to be taking.
    * Go to a hospital emergency room to get immediate help or ask a friend or family member to help you do these       things. Without the right brain chemistry, a person can be physically incapable of forming a positive thought.
    * Call Suicide Prevention Lifeline to talk to a trained counselor.
      – SUMAITRI, New Delhi, For depressed and sucidal Ph#91-(011)-23389090
      – SANJIVINI, New Delhi, Counselling on emotional problems Ph#91-(011)-26864488,24311918
    * Make sure you or the suicidal person is not left alone.
      Tell them you don’t want them to do it and that they are loved and would be badly missed.Try not to push or force – use  reason, then let them alone to think.Keep in touch.Although life circumstances can and do precipitate suicide,a person with a healthy brain chemistry is not even going to think of suicide so its important to see a doctor or a psychiatrist. 

AIDS

May 5th, 2008

AIDS
Acquired immune deficiency syndrome is the most advanced phase of HIV(human immunodeficiency virus). HIV is the virus that causes acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS); it replicates in and kills the helper T cells. HIV is an incurable but largely preventable disease.
 
No other word engenders as much fear, revulsion, despair and utter helplessness as AIDS. Despite increased AIDS awareness, the terror persists. AIDS is, in fact, rewriting medical history as humankind’s deadliest scourge. With 40 million deaths forecast in this millennium, statistics tell their own sordid tale.

Initially it was seen as a threat to only a specific subgroups.The “first wave ” primarily affected homosexual men, the “second wave” expanded the risk to intravenous drug users, and now the “third wave”find the virus expanding into the hetrosexual population.

The first recorded sample of HIV was discovered in 1959 in a blood specimen obtained at Leopoldville (now Kinshasa) in the Belgian Congo. This was the first known death chalked up by AIDS. The HIV is thought to have originally affected chimpanzees. The crossover of the virus from animals to humans may have occurred in the 1950s through an accident or a bite.

Intermittently, other theories of its origins have been advanced during the ongoing process of AIDS research. One theory, put forward by Bette Korber, traces the disease to a single viral ancestor that could have emerged between 1910 and 1950. Through an AIDS research analysis done at the Los Alamos National Lab in New Mexico, Korber contends that the pandemic may have come from one or more infected humans around 1930.

Another highly controversial—but plausible—theory is that of American philosopher, Louis Pascal, first spelt out in 1987. All the early AIDS cases originated in the Central African states of Congo, Rwanda or Burundi. This belt was subjected to trials of a live polio vaccine on 300,000 men, women and children.

Pascal argued that the vaccine, which was grown in cultures obtained from chopped up chimpanzee kidneys, may have carried this virus. Polio researcher Dr Albert Sabin had reported that such a batch was contaminated by an unknown virus. In fact, monkeys harbor SIV or simian immunodeficiency virus (SV-40 to be more specific), which is thought to be the ancestor of HIV.

The first cases of AIDS were reported in the United States in 1981, amongst male homosexuals in Los Angeles and New York. Within two decades, up to 50 million may have been infected globally, approximately 22 million have succumbed and nearly 15,000 new infections are said to occur daily. With a definite AIDS cure still in the research stages, an increased AIDS awareness, counseling and alternative therapy treatments seem to offer the only succor.

What is AIDS and HIV?

HIV has two major categories: HIV-1 and HIV-2. HIV-1, which currently has about 10 subtypes, is most common worldwide and the only form found in the US. HIV-2 is less virulent and though currently confined to West Africa—it’s spreading.

The Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) basically provokes an infection, which destroys the body’s immune system. And AIDS or Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome is the advanced stage of this disease, when the immune system becomes irreparably damaged, engendering multiple infections and cancers. A person is considered HIV positive when s/he tests positive for any of the 26 diseases (Kaposi’s sarcoma, lymphoma, pulmonary tuberculosis, recurrent pneumonia within a 12-month period, wasting syndrome and other indicators) that can easily invade the body during our immune system’s nonfunctionality.

On invading the body, the virus specifically attacks T-cells. A core part of the human defence system, they mobilize other cells to seek and destroy contagious foreign elements besid es leading the immune system’s fight against infections. T-cells are targeted because the AIDS virus parasitizes the CD4 molecules on their surface.

With a protective outer shell of proteins and glyco-proteins, the AIDS virus contains genetic information on the inside. Although substantially smaller than the host T-cells—the virus reproduces by sponging off the host’s cellular resources! Our body fights back by producing up to two billion new T-cells to replace the infected ones, stabilizing the T-cell count temporarily. Yet from day one, the T-cells fight a losing battle.

The genetic information of the AIDS virus, which is encoded as RNA (ribonucleic acid), needs to be reverse transcripted—which the intruder accomplishes with the help of the host cell itself! The now legible DNA is thereafter randomly transferred into the nucleus. All this is accomplished barely a dozen hours following the infection. By this time, the aggressor begins to substantially weaken the host cell, which eventually dies, eroding the immune system and making the body vulnerable to diseases.

Although HIV targets T-cells and other cells in the body, it thrives mainly in the lymph nodes—another important part of the immune system. Each lymph node has a netlike structure inside it that acts as a protective filter by trapping virus and infected T-cells. But as healthy T-cells move through contaminated lymph nodes, they are infected by HIV. Particularly during the early stage of the disease, lymph nodes contain more infected cells than the blood.

Symptoms of HIV/ AIDS

In the early stages, a mild flu and swollen glands are typical. But the symptoms are often unmistakeable when full-blown AIDS develops. Loss of appetite, weight loss, constant fever, prolonged fatigue, diarrhea, constipation, changing bowel patterns, swollen glands, chills coupled with excessive sweating, especially at nights, lesions in the mouth, sore throat, persistent cough, shortness of breath, tumours, skin rashes, headaches, memory lapses, swelling in the joints, pain in various parts of the body, vision problems and a regular feeling of lethargy and ill health make up the litany of symptoms.

With immune systems out of kilter, HIV-positive persons are susceptible to several types of cancer, particularly Kaposi’s sarcoma (KS), an uncommon form that occurs under the skin and in the mucus membranes of the eyes, nose and mouth. Affected persons have lesions that appear as dark-coloured raised blotches. Though the lesions are painless, once KS spreads to the lungs, lymph nodes and digestive tract, the victim experiences difficulty in breathing, gastrointestinal bleeding and painful swelling around the lymph nodes, especially in the legs.
Modes of Transmission

- HIV is transmitted primarily by sex (anal, vaginal or oral sex with an infected partner).
Infected semen and vaginal fluids, infected blood and blood products lead to the transmission of HIV.Unprotected sex with multiple partners is the primary cause of infection. During unprotected sex, the infected fluid could enter the bloodstream through a tiny cut or a sore. Anal penetration has a higher risk of transmission, which is why a high percentage of homosexuals develop the disease. Bleeding during sex also raises the chances of infection. Therefore unprotected sex during menstrual periods and anal intercourse are best avoided.

- by injections (sharing contaminated needles for drug use or accidental piercing with a contaminated needle).
Drug abuse with unsterilized needles is another high-risk activity.

- or from infected mother to child through pregnancy or breast-feeding.
An infected mother can also transmit the virus to her baby before or during birth or through breast milk.

Although traces of HIV have been detected in body fluids (saliva, urine, faeces and tears) there is no evidence that HIV spreads through these fluids. Nor is it water-borne, air-borne or transmitted through mosquitoes and other insects.

Some HIV-infected patients progress to AIDS quickly while others can remain healthy for 10 years or more. Between initial infection and full-blown disease, a middle phase called symptomatic HIV infection, or AIDS-related complex (ARC), occurs, prompting symptoms such as weight loss, diarrhea, and swollen lymph glands.

Scientists have recently discovered clues to why some patients develop AIDS quickly. In a study published last March in the journal Science, National Cancer Institute researchers found that inherited genes may set the clock for AIDS progression. Certain gene patterns tend to stave off AIDS, while others promote it. The researchers say the study may help lead to an AIDS-preventive vaccine or improved therapies against the virus.
Gender Differences in the Risk of HIV Infection
HIV risk factors among injection drug users (IDUs) differ markedly by gender, according to a 10-year study funded by the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA). A recent study by researchers at the Johns Hopkins University reported that while drug-related risk behaviors and homosexual activity are the most important predictors of HIV seroconversion among males, factors consistent with high-risk heterosexual activities are the main predictors among females. The findings, reported in the May 28 (2001) issue of the Archives of Internal Medicine, provide insight into the relationship between gender and high-risk sexual behaviors in the development of HIV infection.

“Early studies of injection drug users suggested that most HIV infections were due primarily to sharing needles,” said NIDA Director Alan I. Leshner, Ph.D. “This study adds to the body of evidence that supports the need for gender-specific interventions in the treatment of that group of drug users.”

Between 1988 and 1998, a team of researchers, led by Dr. Steffanie Strathdee at the Johns Hopkins University Bloomberg School of Public Health, examined both drug related and sexual risk factors for HIV transmission in a study of more than 1,800 injecting drug users in Baltimore, Maryland. Study participants were aged 18 or older, did not have an AIDS defining illness at enrollment, and reported a history of illicit injection drug use within the previous 10 years. Through semiannual interviews, researchers collected data on drug use history, sociodemographics, and drug use and sexual behavior within the last 6 months. Blood samples were also obtained at each study visit. Researchers used commercial HIV and antibody ELISA to identify those participants who had become HIV positive since their last visit.

Dr. Strathdee and her colleagues found that the greatest predictor for HIV seroconversion among both male and female IDUs was high-risk sexual behavior. Study findings revealed that male injection drug users who reported recent homosexual activity were four times more likely to become infected with HIV.

Among females, indicators of high-risk heterosexual activity outweighed needle-sharing behaviors as independent predictors of HIV seroconversion. HIV incidence was more than two times higher among women who reported recently having sex with another injection drug user.

Another common predictor of HIV seroconversion observed by researchers among both male and female IDUs was younger age. Investigators found that IDUs who were aged 30 or younger at enrollment were more than twice as likely to seroconvert than those aged 40 or older.

“This is consistent with several reports which indicate that younger IDUs are more likely to engage in needle sharing and other behaviors that place them at higher risk of acquiring HIV and hepatitis B or C viruses,” stated Dr. Strathdee.

AIDS Prevention

While AIDS is a high-risk disease it can be prevented if proper precautions are taken and greater awareness meted out to those who are ignorant of the virus and its repercussions on the human body. Here we have listed a few measures which can be adopted by everyone inorder to stave off the insidious entry of HIV.

• Prevention is still the best bet. Promiscuous sexual behavior can leave a person highly susceptible to contracting the virus. Where abstinence is not possible, always use latex condoms. The female condom can also help protect both partners. Use only water-based lubricants. Oil lubricants (such as Vaseline) might even tear latex condoms. Use spermicidal (birth control) foams and jellies in addition to condoms. By themselves, spermicides may not be effective in preventing HIV.

• Avoid alcohol or drugs during sex, you might lose control of your senses and engage in unsafe sex. Stick to safer sex practices at all times and avoid having multiple partners. Practice monogamy. If this is a tall order, serial relationships are a lesser evil than multiple ones.

• High-risk sexual behavior should be avoided at all costs. These include: oral genital sex involving contact with semen or vaginal fluids, oral anal sex, vaginal sex without a condom, anal sex sans a condom (active or passive), fisting or manual anal intercourse, the sharing of sex toys, using saliva for lubrication and blood contact of any kind during performance. If unable to resist oral sex, use a dental dam. If a woman is infected, avoid sex during the menses as menstrual blood is infectious

• For transfusions, use disposable syringes and needles. Ensure you get blood that is screened and certified as HIV-free. Better still, get blood from close family members rather than professional donors whose medical antecedents are nebulous.

• The presence of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) increases the risk of contracting HIV from an infected partner. STDs could cause breaks in the skin of the vagina, penis or anus permitting the virus to enter your bloodstream. If you ever contract an STD of any kind, ensure you get prompt treatment.

• The CDC recommends that an HIV-positive woman should not breast-feed her baby. The infant should be given AZT for the first several weeks to substantially reduce the risk of infection.

Myths and Facts About AIDS/ HIV

Say ‘AIDS’ and dime-a-dozen misconceptions abound. The chart topper is that AIDS is supposedly a disease of gay men and intravenous drug users. The facts are otherwise. No doubt in the early years many HIV-positive cases were reported amongst the Western gay community. In recent years, however, prevalence rates among gays have leveled off. Instead, heterosexual transmission has been forging ahead of all other modes of transmission.

The AIDS virus is NOT contracted through touching, hugging, kissing, massage, sharing toilet seats, drinking or eating from utensils used by an infected person or any other mode of casual contact. Nor does working, socialising and living with infected people cause the disease.

Repeated sexual contact without proper precautions with an infected person, using an infected syringe, exposure to infected blood or sexual fluids are ways through which the disease can be transmitted.

Donating blood also does not run the risk of disease contraction since needles used for such purposes are always sterile. Since the AIDS virus is unable to survive outside the human body beyond a short duration, dried blood is not infectious For this reason, mosquitoes are incapable of transmitting HIV as the virus cannot replicate itself in the intestine of insects.

Although medical personnel are potentially at risk from infection, this is minimal if protective gear such as gloves, masks and goggles are always used when handling potentially infected material.

The Elusive Cure
The large-scale infections and deaths have spurred a spate of worldwide efforts for a cure. In the US, however, AIDS cases are said to be dropping and new infections leveling off. Mortality from AIDS is also dropping.

In the developing countries, though, the cases continue to rise alarmingly. Globally, three million died in the year 2000, with 5.3 million newly infected people, 95 percent of whom might die.

Many scientists, doctors and researchers contend that AIDS is not a new disease, having been around much longer than people believe. Dr. Robert Willner—author of Deadly Deception: The Proof That Sex and HIV Absolutely Do Not Cause AIDS—asserts that HIV is not the cause of AIDS. He claims that nearly 500 hundred top scientists of the world have challenged the hypothesis of Robert Gallo—who patented the HIV test the day after the AIDS virus was discovered—that HIV is the precursor of AIDS.

Besides other telling facts, the dissenters want to know how one can explain HIV-free AIDS cases, of which there are said to be nearly 5,000 on record.

Dr. Frank Shallenberger, a licensed medical and homeopathic practitioner, says that statistics are only a correlation—not a result—that HIV is one cause of AIDS, citing the fact that some AIDS victims do not have HIV antibodies. Dr. Shallenberger considers AIDS a multifactorial disease that strikes when the immune system is down.

The search for a cure, also brings to light other interesting facets. African chimpanzees have been harboring the simian equivalent of the AIDS virus for centuries, according to detailed studies conducted by researches at the University of Alabama in Birmingham. Why don’t the chimps succumb to the virus?

Says Dr. Anthony Fauci from the National Institutes of Health: “There must be something about the chimp’s immune system or some host defense system that is doing a very good job of containing the virus. If we find that out we may be able to extrapolate to humans.”

Chimpanzees being the closest living relatives of humans, their DNA differs from human DNA by less than two percent. Adds Dr. Fauci: “It’s entirely conceivable that the very small genetic differences between the chimp and the human will explain why the chimpanzee does not get sick and the human does.”

Helpline Numbers Delhi

April 22nd, 2008

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Helpline Numbers Delhi

For women in distress

Central Social Welfare Board -Police Helpline 1091/ 1291 (011) 23317004
Shakti Shalini 10920
Shakti Shalini – women’s shelter (011) 24373736/ 24373737
SAARTHAK (011) 26853846/ 26524061
All India Women’s Conference 10921/ (011) 23389680
JAGORI (011) 26692700
Joint Women’s Programme (also has branches in Bangalore, Kolkata, Chennai) (011) 24619821
Sakshi – violence intervention center (0124) 2562336/ 5018873
Saheli – a womens organization (011) 24616485 (Saturdays)
Nirmal Niketan (011) 27859158
Nari Raksha Samiti (011) 23973949
RAHI Recovering and Healing from Incest. A support centre for women survivors of child sexual abuse (011) 26238466/ 26224042 26227647

Legal Aid

Human Rights Law Network runs Madhyam Helpline and provide Legal Services (011) 24316922/ 24324503
Lawyers Collective Womens Rights Initiative LC WRI runs a pro-bono legal aid cell for domestic violence cases (011) 24373993/ 24372923
MARG (Multiple Action Research Group) (011) 26497483 / 26496925
Delhi Police HELPLINE 1091
Delhi Commission for Women (011) 23379181/ 23370597
Women’s Cell, Delhi Police (011) 24673366 / 4156 / 7699
National Commission for Women (011) 23237166/ 23236203 / 23236204
National Human Rights Commission (011) 23385368/9810298900
Pratidhi (011) 22527259

For Sexuality and related issues 

TARSHI – Talking about Reproductive & Sexual Health Issues Helpline and Counseling Services (011) 24372229
Parivar Seva Sanstha (011) 24335055

For those with Emotional and Relationship Problems

Sumaitri (011) 23710763
Sanjeevani (Qutab Institutional Area) (011) 26862222/ 26864488
Sanjeevani (Defence Colony) (011) 24318883/ 24311918
SNEHI (011) 26521415/ 26521494
Swaasthya (011) 26274690
Depression Helpline (011) 55258383
IFSHA – Interventions For Support Healing & Awareness (011) 26253289

For Children

Ankur (011) 26523395
Delhi Childline 1098 (Toll Free)
Prayas – for children ages 6-17 years (011) 29955505/ 26089544/ 29956244/ 29051103

HIV/AIDS

AIDS Awareness Group (AAG) (011) 26187953/ 26187954
Shubhchintak Helpline (AIIMS) (011) 26588333

For Lesbian and Bisexual Women

Sangini (011) 55676450

For men who have sex with men

Naz Foundation India Trust provide female and male sexual health services (011) 26910499/ 51325042

Disability Issues

ASTHA (011) 26449029/ 30985439

Emergency Trauma Care Helpline

Centralized Accident Trauma Services (CATS) (011) 23981099/ 23971099/ 1099/ 102

For Senior Citizens

Agewell Foundation (011)29836486/ 29840484

Related to Substance Abuse

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) 9818072887
Alcohol Anonymous (AA) 9811908707/ 55604980

For those affected by Cancer

Cansupport (011)26711212

Other Women’s Organizations

Aashray Adhikar Abhiyan (011) 55281301/ 9868122997
Chetna 9810597427/ (011) 23371962
Chetanalaya (domestic workers forum) (011) 26497483 / 26496925
Prayatan (011) 26524065
Swati – (working women’s hostel) (011) 2336 5974

Five Secrets of Long Lasting Love Relationship

April 22nd, 2008

Five secrets to bring in intimacy in close relationships

First Secret

If you want a close, vibrant love relationship, you need to become a master of commitment.

Second Secret

If you want a long-term relationship thats both close and creatively vital, you have to become emotionally transparent. To go all the way to ultimate closeness and full creative expression, you must eliminate all barriers to speaking and hearing the truth about everything.

Third Secret

If you want a long-term relationship thats both close and creatively vital, you must break the cycle of blame and criticism – its an addiction that saps creative energy as surely as drugs or drink.

Fourth Secret

If you want a vibrant long-term relationship — one in which you feel close as a couple and creative as individuals — you have to do something radical about your creativity. You have to take your attention away from fixing the other person and put it on expressing your own creativity. Even one hour a week of focusing on your own creativity will produce results. More than that will often produce miracles.

Fifth Secret

If you want to create vital, long-lasting love, you must become a specialist in verbal and nonverbal appreciation.

Its completely my personal view that the above five secrets have a revolutionary effect on any relationship in which they are practiced.

Anger Management

April 18th, 2008

Anger is a strong emotion; a feeling that is oriented toward some real or supposed grievance. Before starting with anything just ask yourself why you want it and then it will be easy for you to continue. Take out time for your self and you’ll find how easy things get besides.

Muscle tension and breathing rate, which are mediated by somatic nervous system, both tend to increase in anger. The following tips will help out to make up the relaxation response and manage anger.

Anger management tips:
Taming your temper isn’t always easy. But these effective anger management techniques will help give you the upper hand.

If your outbreak, wrath or bullying are negatively affecting relationships with family, friends, co-workers and even strangers, it’s time to change the way you express your anger. You can take steps on your own to improve your anger management.

Here are some anger management tips to help get your anger under control:

    * Take a “time out.” Although it may seem cliche, counting to 10 before reacting, or leaving the situation altogether, really can defuse your temper.
    * Do something physically exerting. Physical activity can provide an outlet for your emotions, especially if you’re about to erupt. Go for a brisk walk or a run, swim, lift weights or shoot baskets.
    * Find ways to calm and soothe yourself. Practice deep-breathing exercises, visualize a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase to yourself, such as “take it easy.” You can also listen to music, paint, journal or do yoga.
    * Once you’re calm, express your anger as soon as possible so that you aren’t left stewing. If you simply can’t express your anger in a controlled manner to the person who angered you, try talking to a family member, friend, counselor or another trusted person.
    * Think carefully before you say anything so that you don’t end up saying something you’ll regret. Write a script and rehearse it so that you can stick to the issues.
    * Work with the person who angered you to identify solutions to the situation.
    * Use “I” statements when describing the problem to avoid criticizing or placing blame. For instance, say “I’m upset you didn’t help with the housework this evening,” instead of, “You should have helped with the housework.” To do otherwise will likely upset the other person and escalate tensions.
    * Don’t hold a grudge. Forgive the other person. It’s unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want.
    * Use humor to release tensions, such as imagining yourself or the other person in silly situations. Don’t use sarcasm, though — it’s just another form of unhealthy expression.
    * Keep an anger log to identify the kinds of situations that set you off and to monitor your reactions.
    * Practice relaxation skills. Learning skills to relax and de-stress can also help control your temper when it may flare up.

You know you’re only hurting yourself by being angry and yet you can’t stop the feeling from boiling inside you. What do you do? Try anger management. Yes, you can do anger management even if it feels like a bomb is about to explode from deep inside you.

First, whatever it is that’s causing you to feel the urge to smash the face of someone, no matter how intense that feeling is,cool down but dont freeze! Distract your mind from what’s bugging you by verbally counting numbers, from one to 10 or to a thousand or …. and by the time you get tired of counting, your anger would have subsided.

If you feel silly counting numbers, do something physically strenuous like going for a brisk walk or jog. You can go to the swimming pool and cool down. You can go to the gym to exercise. Physical activity provides a channel for your strong emotions to run through.

If sweating it out isn’t exactly your cup of tea, you can still manage your anger by simply calming and soothing yourself. Lock yourself in your room, turn off or dim the lights, sit down and meditate. If you know yoga, this is the best time to practice it.

If you don’t know yoga, then just take slow, deep breaths. Visualize a comforting scene – a serene forest or lake or park with just you and nature all around. Repeat a calming phrase or word to yourself like “calm down” or “cool down.”

You can also listen to music – whatever you like but preferably gentle, meditative music to ease the burning sensation in your mind.

You can paint, write a blog, surf the Internet, or do any other thing to distract your mind from what’s causing you trouble.

Once you’ve calm down, deal with your anger that’s still embedded inside your system by expressing it in a controlled, deliberate manner either to the person who caused you to feel angry or to a family member, friend, counselor, or any person you trust.

Now that you’re in control of your emotions, you’ll have the facility to avoid saying hurtful things that would only aggravate the conflict and your anger, which you would later regret having done. If you’re not sure how you can best confront the source of your anger, try to write a script of what you plan to say to that person. Remember: Stick to issues and don’t get personal.

Try not to hold a grudge against any person. Try to forgive. Bear in mind that it’s unrealistic to expect someone to do and act as you please.

Try to be humorous or witty when talking to an offending person. The smiles and laughter you would cause could release the tensions.
Don’t be sarcastic. Sarcasm may sound witty to you but it will not sound funny at all to the person listening to you. This could only inflame the situation.

If you have the time and the patience, write on your blog or diary the situation that caused you to feel angry. Monitor your response to every situation.

You see, it’s not that hard to manage your anger. JUST take out some time for your self.